7 cool things they don’t teach you at therapy school

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What works in therapy?

When I graduated as a psychotherapist in 1990 I had been taught a lot of things that were never much use in therapy – watching out for ‘transference issues’ was one of them. I had also not been taught a lot of things that I really needed to know, but only found out later. So like most therapists I had to improvise in addition to taking a lot more add-on courses. But now I have been doing it for 23 years I have learnt a few things I am going to share with you.

Here is my list of seven things that matter in therapy.

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Removing a traumatic memory

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Working with traumatic memory

Do you have a troublesome or traumatic memory? Or Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome?

A common belief is that once you have one of these memories then you are stuck with it for life, and little can be done about it.

Recent research confirms that this is not so, and that it is possible to neutralise traumatic memories in therapy. One way to do that is to interfere with the way in which the brain accesses these memories. This is the basis for the EMDR technique which disrupts access to traumatic memories by asking subjects to keep their eyes on a moving finger while trying to recall the trauma at the same time.

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Four main causes of depression – and what to do about them

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What is clinical depression?

The first month of 2011 has come and gone and statistics show that January is the most depressing month, in that more people will seek help for depression than at any other time of the year. As it happens, I have been more than usually busy with depressed clients since the New Year came on; a fact which prompts me to write this article.

First, let’s be clear about what clinical depression really is.

In my view, many of the people who are diagnosed by their GP as having depression are not, in fact, clinically depressed at all. Instead, they could be sad, despondent, fed up with life, or unhappy. This is one reason why anti-depressants don’t work for many. Anti-depressant drugs such as the SSRIs – which increase the amount of serotonin in circulation in the brain – will only work, obviously, if the patient has serotonin depletion in the first place, which may only be the case if they actually have clinical depression.

Whether you are depressed, sad, fed up, or unhappy, this article may still apply to you.

The four main sources of depression

1. Fusion with anxious, or depressing thoughts

If you are a habitual worrier, perfectionist, or guilt-tripper then, on a daily basis, your body will become accustomed to high anxiety levels. Since Bodymind cannot tolerate over-arousal for too long, it will seek to reduce the problem by damping down the system. Typically, this means reducing serotonin (which elevates mood), which leads to the symptoms of clinical depression. In this respect it has been estimated that over 70% of depressed people also have high anxiety levels.

The solution is to defuse from unhelpful thoughts.

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